Give it Time
and don't lose hope
Scripture Reading: 2 Samuel 1-2; John 3; Psalm 114
In John chapter 3, we find one of the most well-known verses in the Bible—John 3:16. Its fame grew even more years ago when a coordinated effort was made to display it at NFL games, with people in the end zones holding large signs that read John 3:16.
That verse appears in the middle of a nighttime conversation between Jesus and a man named Nicodemus. We’re not told exactly why Nicodemus came at night—though some have speculated he didn’t want to be seen in public talking to Jesus. Whatever his reason, one thing is clear: he came sincerely. Unlike many of the religious leaders who confronted Jesus with questions designed to trap Him, Nicodemus came with genuine curiosity.
What’s interesting—and often overlooked because of the gospel richness of Jesus’ words—is that we’re never told how the conversation ended. Unlike other encounters Jesus had with individuals, we don’t hear if Nicodemus went away mad, sad, or glad. In fact, John simply continues the narrative: “After this, Jesus and his disciples went out into the Judean countryside...” And Nicodemus disappears from view.
That silence is not an accident. It’s a subtle lesson in patience and trust.
Not everyone we share the gospel with will respond immediately. In fact, most don’t. Some will reject it—and us. But others, like Nicodemus, will listen sincerely, even if they don’t respond right away. They may walk away quietly, but the truth stays with them.
In those cases, the gospel is like a seed planted in good soil. It’s working beneath the surface—in the heart—where we can’t see it. We must resist the urge to dig it up to check if it’s growing. Leave it be. Let God do His work. Water the seed when you can, but most of all, trust the Lord.
Have hope.
Believe in the power of the gospel to save.
